Reality Check: Love, Life & Little Ones
Welcome to the "Reality Check", where we dive into the joys and challenges of married life with a candid look at love, life, and parenting two young boys.
Join us as we navigate the ups, downs, and unexpected turns of building a family together plus more!
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Episodes
55 episodes
Episode 55: Let's Talk About Spicing Things Up!
Spicing things up doesn't have to be R-rated. In this episode, we discuss how we can spicy things up in our marriage by doing practical, fun, and adventures ways while spending quality time with each other.
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Season 3
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Episode 55
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28:44
Episode 54: Lunchboxes, Late Nights & the End of School Holiday Chaos
School holidays are fun… until they end. In this episode, we talk about the mad scramble of going back to school—resetting routines, surviving lunch prep, and adjusting from holiday chaos to school-day structure. From packed lunches to tired pa...
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Season 3
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Episode 54
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18:23
Episode 53: The Year that was 2016!
Ten years ago, life looked very different. In this episode, we sit down to reminisce about 2016—sharing personal memories, big life moments, and the events that made that year unforgettable. It’s a laid-back conversation about nostalgia, growth...
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Season 3
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Episode 53
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28:13
Episode 52: The Couple Hot Seat 🔥Part 2
This week, we ask each other rapid-fire questions to get to know each other a little better—from everyday preferences to fun favorites (yes, including our go-to bubble tea orders). Get to know us better while having a few laughs along the...
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Season 3
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Episode 52
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38:06
Episode 51: Couch Talk: Vision Boards & Big Dreams
Just us, the couch, and a vision board full of dreams. We chat about what we want to create, what we’re calling in, and why dreaming together matters—keeping it light, fun, and very us.
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Season 3
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Episode 51
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33:11
Episode 50: Surviving the Holidays & Planning the Future
Christmas ✔️ New Year ✔️ Still married ✔️ We’re talking holiday highlights, funny moments, and what we’re hoping (and slightly nervous) about for the year ahead. Join us for a relaxed, honest, and playful chat about life, goals, and do...
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Season 3
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Episode 50
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33:42
Episode 49: A New Season for Us
It’s been a while — and yes, we have excuses. In our first episode back, we’re recapping 2025, laughing about how quickly life changes, and breaking down the chaos, growth, and surprises that came with moving houses. Expect real talk, light ban...
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Season 3
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Episode 1
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27:06
Episode 48 : The Couple Hot Seat 🔥
This week, we're putting each other in the Reality Check Hot Seat 🔥- asking the controversial, funny, and brutally honest questions that every couple should answer (but most avoid).From love and marriage to parenting chaos and guilty con...
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Season 2
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Episode 48
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1:00:29
Episode 47: Halloween Then vs Now
From spooky parties and matching couple costumes to chasing sugar-high kids through the neighborhood - we're talking all things Halloween! Tune in as we look back on our pre-kid Halloween adventures, our family traditions now, and how tick-or-t...
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Season 2
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Episode 47
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40:07
Episode 46: One Year Later: Grief, Growth & Celebration
In this weeks episode, we reflect on the year that's passed since losing Mom and how it's affected our lives, and how we celebrated her one year anniversary. As we mark the one-year anniversary of her passing, we also celebrate Luca turning one...
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Season 2
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Episode 46
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34:19
Episode 45: School Holidays Begin: Send Help!
The weekend may be over, but school holidays are just getting started - and the chaos is real. In this episode we share the reality of keeping kids entertained, juggling routines, and trying not to lose ourselves in the madness. Parenting unfil...
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Season 2
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Episode 45
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40:47
Episode 44: The Pressure to Have More Kids (and a Girl!)
"Are you gonna try for a girl this time?" - we hear it all the time. In this episode, we get real about the pressure to have more kids, the idea of a "complete" family, and how we're learning to shut out the noise. Whether you're one-and-done o...
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Season 2
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Episode 44
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36:47
Episode 43: Father's Day Feels & Quick Family Getaway!
In this episode, we're diving into what we got up to on Father's Day. Then, we shift gears and talk about our quick weekend getaway: the good, the highlights, and the downright exhausting parts of travelling kids - from siblings fighting and no...
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33:23
Episode 42: Throwback Love Vibes
We're taking a trip down memory land - the songs that remind us of each other, the styles we love (and laugh about), and all the little things that make our story uniquely ours. A mix of nostalgia, fun, and real talk above love and partnership....
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Season 2
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Episode 42
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30:21
Episode 41: Parenting Unfiltered: Talking Back
Parenting isn't all cuddles and cute moments - sometimes it's attitude, backchat, and behavior battles that leave you questioning everything. In this episode, we get real about handling kids talking back, navigating meltdowns, and trying to sta...
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Season 2
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Episode 41
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42:28
Episode 40: Life, Lows & Long Runs
We're back after a little pause - life got busy, our energy hit the floor, and training for the City2Surf took over. We chat about juggling it and how we're finding our way back. More laughs, real talk, and parenting chaos coming your way!
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Season 2
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Episode 40
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29:56
Episode 39: We're Back! After NYC, Disney and Family Chaos
We're officially back after a 4-month break - and we've got stories! In this episode, we're sharing the highs, hiccups, and heartwarming moments from our unforgettable trip to the US. From the buzz of New York City to the magic of D...
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Season 2
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Episode 39
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39:27
Episode 38: Flight Canceled, Love Activated
When plans fall apart, do we show up for each other or fall apart too? In this episode, we share a recent travel disaster and how going the extra mile (literally and emotionally) made all the difference.
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Season 2
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Episode 38
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22:38
Episode 37: 6 Months Later: Grief in Real Life
It's been half a year since losing Mom, and the grief still hits hard. In this raw and honest episode, we share what it's really been like - unexpected waves, guilt, signs from beyond, and learning to live with the ache.
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Season 2
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Episode 37
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55:58
Episode 36:Attached or Avoidant? Let’s Talk Attachment Styles
Ever wonder why you love the way you do? In this episode, we’re diving into attachment styles—how they shape our relationships, where they come from, and how to break unhealthy patterns. Get ready for some eye-opening insights!
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Season 2
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Episode 36
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38:12
Episode 35: Adulting Is Overrated
Bills, responsibilities, and never-ending to-do-lists - who signed us up for this?! In this episode, we're talking about why adulting is totally overrated and we're not even sorry about saying it, because it totally is!
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32:23
Episode 34: FOMO
From social events to life milestones, FOMO hits differently as parents. In this episode, we talk about the struggles of feeling like you're missing out, how to deal with it, and finding contentment right where you are.
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Season 2
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Episode 34
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37:24
Episode 33: Marriage Myths: Busted!!
Think marriage is all sunshine and rainbows, never going to bed angry, or that having kids will improve your relationship? Think again! In this episode, we're busting some of the biggest marriage myths and getting real about what actually makes...
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22:25
S2 Episode 32: Growing up 90s Pinoy 🇵🇭
Take a trip down memory lane as we relive the 90s Pinoy experience! From rocking baggy jeans and gelled-up hair to shooting hoops in barefoot, squeezing into jeepneys, and chasing the Taho vendor every morning—this episode is all about the sigh...
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Season 2
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Episode 32
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48:57
S2 Episode 31: A Valentine's Day Special🌹
Love is in the air… or is it? This Valentine’s Day, we’re talking all things love - grand gestures, awkward moments, and the reality of romance after kids. Whether you’re a hopeless romantic or think it’s just another Hallmark holiday, this epi...
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Season 2
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Episode 8
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