Reality Check: Love, Life & Little Ones
Welcome to the "Reality Check", where we dive into the joys and challenges of married life with a candid look at love, life, and parenting two young boys.
Join us as we navigate the ups, downs, and unexpected turns of building a family together plus more!
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Episodes
42 episodes
Episode 42: Throwback Love Vibes
We're taking a trip down memory land - the songs that remind us of each other, the styles we love (and laugh about), and all the little things that make our story uniquely ours. A mix of nostalgia, fun, and real talk above love and partnership....
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Season 2
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Episode 42
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30:21
Episode 41: Parenting Unfiltered: Talking Back
Parenting isn't all cuddles and cute moments - sometimes it's attitude, backchat, and behavior battles that leave you questioning everything. In this episode, we get real about handling kids talking back, navigating meltdowns, and trying to sta...
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Season 2
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Episode 41
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42:28
Episode 40: Life, Lows & Long Runs
We're back after a little pause - life got busy, our energy hit the floor, and training for the City2Surf took over. We chat about juggling it and how we're finding our way back. More laughs, real talk, and parenting chaos coming your way!
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Season 2
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Episode 40
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29:56
Episode 39: We're Back! After NYC, Disney and Family Chaos
We're officially back after a 4-month break - and we've got stories! In this episode, we're sharing the highs, hiccups, and heartwarming moments from our unforgettable trip to the US. From the buzz of New York City to the magic of D...
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Episode 39
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39:27
Episode 38: Flight Canceled, Love Activated
When plans fall apart, do we show up for each other or fall apart too? In this episode, we share a recent travel disaster and how going the extra mile (literally and emotionally) made all the difference.
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Season 2
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Episode 38
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22:38
Episode 37: 6 Months Later: Grief in Real Life
It's been half a year since losing Mom, and the grief still hits hard. In this raw and honest episode, we share what it's really been like - unexpected waves, guilt, signs from beyond, and learning to live with the ache.
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Season 2
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Episode 37
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55:58
Episode 36:Attached or Avoidant? Let’s Talk Attachment Styles
Ever wonder why you love the way you do? In this episode, we’re diving into attachment styles—how they shape our relationships, where they come from, and how to break unhealthy patterns. Get ready for some eye-opening insights!
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Season 2
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Episode 36
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38:12
Episode 35: Adulting Is Overrated
Bills, responsibilities, and never-ending to-do-lists - who signed us up for this?! In this episode, we're talking about why adulting is totally overrated and we're not even sorry about saying it, because it totally is!
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32:23
Episode 34: FOMO
From social events to life milestones, FOMO hits differently as parents. In this episode, we talk about the struggles of feeling like you're missing out, how to deal with it, and finding contentment right where you are.
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Season 2
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Episode 34
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37:24
Episode 33: Marriage Myths: Busted!!
Think marriage is all sunshine and rainbows, never going to bed angry, or that having kids will improve your relationship? Think again! In this episode, we're busting some of the biggest marriage myths and getting real about what actually makes...
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22:25
S2 Episode 32: Growing up 90s Pinoy 🇵🇭
Take a trip down memory lane as we relive the 90s Pinoy experience! From rocking baggy jeans and gelled-up hair to shooting hoops in barefoot, squeezing into jeepneys, and chasing the Taho vendor every morning—this episode is all about the sigh...
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Season 2
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Episode 32
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48:57
S2 Episode 31: A Valentine's Day Special🌹
Love is in the air… or is it? This Valentine’s Day, we’re talking all things love - grand gestures, awkward moments, and the reality of romance after kids. Whether you’re a hopeless romantic or think it’s just another Hallmark holiday, this epi...
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Season 2
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Episode 8
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19:17
S2 Episode 30: Back to the 90s
Step into a time when neon colors, boy bands, and Tamagotchis ruled the world. Join us as we take a deep dive into the most iconic decade — the 1990s! From the music that shaped our youth to the unforgettable fashion trends and pop culture mome...
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Season 2
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Episode 7
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48:39
S2 Episode 29: Manifestation & Mindset
Can you really think your way to a better life? In this episode, we dive into manifestation, mindset shifts, and what it means to be a super attractor. From vision boards to real action, let’s talk about turning dreams into reality—no fluff, ju...
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Season 2
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Episode 6
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35:54
S2 Episode 28: Mom Guilt vs Dad Guilt
Parenting is tough, and the weight of guilt can often feel even heavier. This week we discuss the pressure of modern parenting without letting guilt take the wheel. From balancing work and family, the difference between 'mom guilt' and 'dad gui...
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Season 2
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Episode 5
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35:23
S2 Episode 27: Scroll Back: Unpacking Social Media Memories
This week we've been looking at Facebook memories and reflecting on previous events (cringy clubbing photos), milestones, challenges, and how it's shaped us today. Through personal stories, candid conversations, and reflections, we explor...
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Season 2
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Episode 4
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44:22
S2 Episode 26: Navigating Loss Together in Marriage
Grief can be an overwhelming and isolating experience, but when it strikes a marriage, it can feel even more challenging. In this episode, we discuss how losing a loved one has impacted our marriage - for better and for worse while supporting o...
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Season 2
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Episode 3
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38:59
S2 Episode 25: Parenting During School Holidays
Whether you're juggling work, home life, or simply trying to keep the kids entertained, we discuss the challenges and reality of how we've been managing this. Tune in for some laughs and all the real talk in this weeks episode!
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Season 2
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Episode 2
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28:53
S2 Episode 24: Unwrapping 2024
Welcome to Episode 1 of Season 2! After some time off, we reflect on the importance of taking time off from recording episodes and the impact that life’s unexpected events can have on both personal growth and creative endeavors. Whether it's a ...
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Season 2
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Episode 1
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41:11
Episode 23: Family Trip - Live from Japan- Part 2 🗾🈁🍡
Join us this week as we near the end of our Trip to Japan. In this episode we look back at all the challenges we've faced with travelling with two young kids, highlights and low lights.
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Season 1
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Episode 23
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33:59
Episode 22: Family Trip - Live from Japan 🗾🈁🍡
We are currently travelling around Japan as a family and live from Tokyo. Here's a recap of how it's going, mainly the challenges we've faced so far - from plane rides, tantrums and how we've coped.
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Season 1
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Episode 21
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21:03
Episode 21: The "Room Mate" Phase
Have you ever been in a "room mate" phase with your partner? This is where you begin to cohabit in a platonic manner with your partner - without any physical or emotional attachment. You may have gotten comfortable with your partner or pe...
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Season 1
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Episode 21
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33:35
Episode 20: Questions to Ask Before Goodbye
In this episode, we delve into the delicate, yet crucial topic of preparing for the inevitable. Whether facing illness or simply planning ahead, discussing end-of-life questions with your partner can be daunting yet profoundly meaningful. Join ...
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Season 1
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Episode 20
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41:20
Episode 19: The Magic of Disney
Join us this week as we are joined by a special guest as we journey through the world of Disney. We unravel the love of Disney, favorite movies, magical moments, rides, and celebrate the nostalgia and wonder that keep us all coming back f...
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Season 1
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Episode 19
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35:20
Episode 18: Boomer VS Millennial Parenting
This week we sit with a very special guest to discuss the contrast between the Boomer VS Millennial age, such as - dating, migrating to Australia and the cultural difference, raising kids then VS now and how technology has shaped today's world....
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Season 1
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Episode 18
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32:22